Locus of Control: Chance or GOd?
For several years I have taught Management students and am practicing managers and leaders the concept of Internal Locus of control. I have given questionnaires to assess the extent of internality or externality of people. I have always recommended that unless one feels that one has control over things that happen to him or her, one may not put in his/her best effort. I feel to a large extent we are the product of our inner talent, hard work and efforts. This approach is necessary to make things happen. Do we really make things happen? However as one grows and with series of encounters and experiences, one begins to feel the extent to which we are not in control of things. There seem to be too many factors that effect. For example if I want to reform the Board of Governors of an Institution for which I work, can I do it alone, howsoever I may believe in my own competence or the genuineness of the need? Waht if made choices other than those I made at different points of me? Am I responsible for the same? For example what if I persisted and managed to go abroad to study? What if I did not come in touch with people like Fr. Gordon? or EGP or Dr. Dave or Udai Pareek/ or McClelland? or Ravi Matthai? or Samuel Paul? What if I married some one else than Jaya? What if am born in anotehr family than to Raghavamma? What if did not start NHRDN? What if I drafted the constitution of NHRDN differently ? What if I did not leave IIMA after I got 20 year service medal? What if we did not start AHRD? What if AHRD was not shifted back to Ahmedabad IN 2000? There are innumerable whats for which there is no answer. life is full of points and each point gives us a new turn. When we take a turn we take the decision and feel that we made it. Some times we feel so without knowing the way the future is going to take the turn. What turn it will take is not in our hands. Then in whose hands?. It is filled with chance factors. chance after Chance and chance after chance. It is these series of chances that I have begun to feel that we name as God. Nothing is in our hands. It is in the hands of God. Prayer helps. But what does prayer mean? Prayer means to be good. to think good, to speak good and to do good. Prayer puts us in a different pedestal. It does not matter what happens to us in praying we are trying to be good. When one is good e to out selves and to each other then the sorrows of the world will take a different meaning. Experience the new world of there is nothing in your hands. Do your duty. Keep doing what you are supposed to do. Lord Krishna gave so much wisdom and Jesus Christ gives direction to this wisdom. Buddha shows salvation for self. I everything is in you control your thoughts, desires and actions. Everything is temporary.